Rule

I may miss my mortgage payment. What should I do first?

Short answer

Contact the lender or mortgage administrator before the payment fails, explain the cause and ask for the available hardship options in writing. Then review the full household budget and property equity with a mortgage broker. Waiting removes options and adds arrears, legal costs and credit damage.

The client problem

Clients often protect credit cards first because those collectors call sooner. The mortgage is secured by the home, so ignoring it creates the larger risk.

A practical Ontario example

A temporary income interruption will last eight weeks. An agreed payment arrangement may be less damaging than an unapproved missed payment. If the problem is permanent, a refinance, sale or structured alternative loan needs to start early.

How the lending routes may differ

  • A lender: ask the existing lender about its hardship or payment-relief process; approval is case-specific.
  • Alternative/B: may refinance arrears when income, equity and property fit, with lender and broker costs included.
  • MIC/private: may stop an immediate default through short-term equity financing, but only with a realistic sale, refinance or other exit.

Policy boundary: FCAC expectations discussed here apply to federally regulated financial institutions and do not require every lender to offer the same relief.

Questions to ask now

  • Is the problem temporary or ongoing?
  • How many payments are at risk?
  • What is the current property value and mortgage payout?
  • Can the household afford the mortgage after any rescue loan?

Rajiv’s practical view

Protect the home by dealing with the cause early. A new mortgage should create time for a workable recovery, not add cost to a payment that remains unaffordable.

Source and context

Review the official source

General Ontario education. Results depend on the contract, lender, administrator, property, equity, documents and legal advice. No approval or legal outcome is promised.

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Rajiv Verma, Mortgage Broker · Ontario

Sources and context

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Source checked
2026-09-08
Effective
2026-09-08
Next review
2026-12-08
Assumptions and limitations
General Ontario education. Lender, regulator, mortgage-insurer, administrator and legal requirements vary by transaction. Examples are illustrative, not approvals, legal advice or guarantees.

Source checks are snapshots, not a guarantee that rules have remained unchanged. Individual circumstances and lender policies vary.

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