Rule

Can parents use equity in their home to help with my down payment?

Short answer

Yes, if the parents qualify and have enough equity. The money may be gifted or lent, but the buyer’s lender must know the true arrangement. The family should compare a HELOC, refinance, second mortgage and adding the parent to the new mortgage rather than choosing whichever produces cash fastest.

The problem families discover too late

The child’s closing is urgent, so parents take an expensive second mortgage without comparing their upcoming renewal or repayment ability. The purchase closes, but the family has no plan to repay the helper debt.

A practical Ontario example

Parents need $100,000 for the child. A HELOC may be flexible but requires qualification; refinancing may trigger a penalty; an alternative second mortgage may be faster; a private second may cost more. The right answer depends on timing, equity, income and expected repayment.

How A, alternative/B and private routes may differ

  • A lender: HELOC or refinance may offer the lowest cost when income, credit and timing fit.
  • Alternative/B lender: can use broader income evidence or a second-position product, with fees included in the comparison.
  • MIC/private lender: can provide short-term equity access when speed or qualification is difficult, preferably with an open or suitable term and clear exit.

Policy boundary: Each lender and mortgage insurer sets its own borrower, guarantor, gift, debt-service and title requirements. FCAC explains consumer rights and general mortgage concepts; it does not set individual lender underwriting policy.

Questions the family should answer

  • Is the money a gift or loan?
  • What penalty applies to the parents’ current mortgage?
  • Can they carry the new payment after retirement?
  • When and from what source will the debt be repaid?

Rajiv’s practical view

Run the parents’ mortgage and the child’s mortgage as one family strategy. Saving the purchase while weakening the parents’ finances is not a successful solution.

Source and context

Review the official source

General Ontario education. Lender, mortgage-insurer, tax, title and legal treatment depend on the facts and documents. Examples are not approvals, quotes, tax advice or legal advice.

Sharing ownership or family money?

Ask Rajiv for a referral to an Ontario real-estate lawyer who can document the arrangement before closing. You decide whether to retain anyone referred.

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Want to help without creating the wrong mortgage?

Send Rajiv the purchase price, down payment, family contribution and each person’s future borrowing plans. He can compare A, alternative/B, MIC and private options where appropriate.

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Rajiv Verma, Mortgage Broker · Ontario

Sources and context

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Source checked
2026-09-08
Effective
2026-09-08
Next review
2026-12-08
Assumptions and limitations
General Ontario education. Co-borrower, guarantor, gifted-fund, title, tax and mortgage-insurer treatment varies by lender, program and facts. Examples are illustrative, not approvals, quotes, tax advice or legal advice.

Source checks are snapshots, not a guarantee that rules have remained unchanged. Individual circumstances and lender policies vary.

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